Hello, I am Rafael. Thanks for asking your question - I'm here to support you. (Information posted here is not private or confidential but public).
I am very sorry to know about your friends mental illness.
I hope these links could help her. They include support for people suffering on this and other disorders as well as for threir families:
This offer supports groups online too: http://www.bpdcentral.com/support-groups/
This is for the National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder, with difefrent sources of support and useful information for patients and families: http://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.com/resources-news/links-to-other-bpd-sources/
SANE does provide very helpful information and links for support including support around employment and others: http://www.sane.org/
I see, this is not an easy but tough disorder, and the person's support system plays a key role in every step leading to the rehabilitation process
I am glad to know she has you helping her, and that she is wiling to get professional support too.
You're very welcome