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Emdr theripest chat please

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Emdr theripest chat please

Dr. L :

Good Morning

Dr. L :

I am trained in EMDR and have been using the technique for some 20 years.

Dr. L :

I see you are offline right now. When you come online I will be notified and then we can chat.

Dr. L :

Thank you.

Customer:

Hi

Customer:

Halo

Customer:

Mr

Customer:

Hi

Customer:

Can we talk?

Customer:

Halo

Customer:

Mr

Customer:

Hi

Customer:

Can we talk?

Customer:

Hi

Customer:

Am wating

Dr. L :

Hello,

Dr. L :

I am here.

Customer:

Hi

Dr. L :

How can I help you this morning.

Dr. L :

I would be very happy to help you. Please let me know what your question is.

Customer:

hi

Customer:

sorry I had page bug

Customer:

ok mr

Customer:

here my problem

Customer:

I was traumtized

Customer:

when I was kid

Customer:

in bad relation between my parents

Customer:

after that at 19 I had strong trauma devlop ptsd then dissction

Customer:

I notice all symptoms stops once I leave my house trauma location

Customer:

but this not the problem

Customer:

I get out dissection for long term

Customer:

then I stops my midctions

Customer:

then I get in dissection again

Customer:

after that I travel to near countrie and did 20 session emdr while dissoiated

Customer:

things get very bad

Customer:

very very bad

Customer:

after I went home

Customer:

I start rexperince 10x of trauma than before emdr

Customer:

I take my midctions back and useless

Customer:

I cant get out dissection because of intensive symtoms

Customer:

so why that happened?

Customer:

why I feel worse after emdr

Customer:

I cant stops feeling of trauma

Customer:

reexperincing is very very worse after emdr

Customer:

?

Dr. L :

I am reading through your account ... please give me a few seconds here and I will reply.

Dr. L :

So the idea of emdr is to help you process thro intense emotions. I wondered tho how you ended the session. It is important to have a good ending where you are in a relaxed, calmer place. Did that happen for you?

Customer:

no

Customer:

once I get back to trauma place

Customer:

things get too much worse

Customer:

anixety

Customer:

I start rexcperince more

Customer:

all symtoms increase

Customer:

I knew that when you do emdr you must have no dissoction

Customer:

otherwise things get worse

Dr. L :

It is important, prior to doing the emdr to have a safepace to remember. I think it may be that you need to do pre-emdr work to help you buid relaxation skills before even beginning

Customer:

but am not asking about processes,am telling you what real happend

Customer:

the result

Customer:

things get very worse

Customer:

I start feel trauma 24hrs

Customer:

not stoping at all

Customer:

things was very good before emdr

Dr. L :

I would not do more emdr for awhile as it seems to be opening up more than calming down

Customer:

ok can emdr I did effect realese

Customer:

is there a way to delete emdr

Customer:

or get to situation before emdr?

Dr. L :

I would go back to regular talk therapist and get support and reassurance for what was opened up. Yes I think it can go back.

Customer:

I mean

Customer:

I want to revers emdr sessions

Customer:

I want to do something the effect of emdr on me

Customer:

because I hate emdr

Customer:

and everything remember me of it

Customer:

I wish I never do it

Dr. L :

I understand

Customer:

the theripest was stupid

Dr. L :

It does not sound like you felt at all helped.

Customer:

no

Customer:

it sound things get worse

Customer:

and I wish to get back to situation befoe emdr

Customer:

I think emdr is something wrong

Customer:

because our brain make emdr by itself

Customer:

when trauma didn't prossces for a reason

Customer:

emdr make things worse

Dr. L :

There are many other kinds of therapies and not all therapists are as skillful.. They call emdr a power tool but you need to be a competent therapist before using emdr

Customer:

once person in safe

Customer:

yes

Customer:

I stops doing emdr

Customer:

after that

Customer:

I hope the effect of emdr vaniched by timre

Dr. L :

that is good you stopped

Customer:

time

Dr. L :

I think it will

Customer:

yes I hope so

Customer:

thank you mr very much!

Dr. L :

you are welcome

Dr. L :

take care

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