Hi! I'll be glad to help you with this issue.
It sounds as though your partner is very insecure. And that he keeps testing you to see if you really love him. Is this possibly what's happening?
Please do, because so far from what I know, it would seem to be that self defeating pattern he's on that is based on insecurity: he says go ahead when he really means inside: "I'm scared if you go that you won't want me any more, so please show me you love me and don't go". Is this what's happening?