Hi and welcome. I am a Licensed Master Social Worker with more than 20 years experience working with individuals and families on a variety of issues.
Who has told you that it is inappropriate?
There are several layers here....if he has some difficulties socializing and with boundaries then I can maybe see why this would be seen as too much. But, like you, I hear that he is expressing his affection and it sounds lovely.
I don't hear inappropriate touching or in places that shouldn't be touched.
I am a Lesbian and my partner does not like him "hanging" on me and says that it is inappropriate
Also stated that many people in public made comments
I heard none of them'
it is normal for 14 year old boys to lean on someone and throw an arm around...many won't do this anymore so that fact that he is shows he needs it and that is just fine.
ahhhh. It sounds to me that this is more of an issue with your partner than with him.
lol I think you hit the nail on the head !
made comments that a boy is being expressive in this way with his feelings?
thank you for your help
yes I think I have too! :-)
what is her jealousy all about? nobody else aloud to share you and have affection?
you're smart. wish you were my therapist!! :)
you hit the nail again I think
lol you can have sessions with me through pear/etherapi. but do you have a therapist already? if not I can give you the link on how to find me there
how long are the two of you together?
actually I do have a therapist but I would like the link. I like your style. You are to the point.
always to the point. no reason not to be. :-)
here is the link.https://pearl.etherapi.com/connectme/147
it is an online medium with video chats.
I have used it with others and quite successfully.
Cool. I'll find you
you have been a lifesaver
excellent. I look forward. How else can I support you now? Seems like there are some relationship issues that need to be looked at, but we can address that at another time or I am still here with you now.
omg we don't have enough time for the jealousy and control issues now LOL
we see a therapist
of course NOT! lol but still want to support you in any way now. Are you finding help in your sessions?
somewhat but I feel that you would be better. Move to Atlanta!
so, I leave it to you. Come find me at the link above and if you want schedule some time and we can delve into things.
thank you so much
ok, I am on my way. Hang on I need to pick up the kids from school first.
bye for now.