Hi there, I'm a 25 year old male in the 3rd year of a relationship with my partner, over the past 6 months or so i have been suffering from premature ejaculation
, it isn't as extreme as me reaching climax before penetration but i am struggling to control my ejaculation before my partner has orgasmed. Naturally this is frustrating her to no end, despite my best efforts to please her im quite sure all she really wants is for me to last longer.
As it stands i have tried stop start technique, breathing and relaxing, concentrating all the foreplay on her, for about a week it seemed cured but then i relapsed and it causes nothing but embarassment, with the other stresses
of life too and now a sex life that is pretty one sided, i'm quite confident that if i dont take drastic action now i will lose my girlfriend. So given that i have the pressure of "work it out or she's gone" on my mind, no amount of meditation
is going to lift that off my shoulders. What i'd like to know is if going to see my doctor and find out whether i can get a perscription for something to either keep me erect or delay ejaculation in order to satisfy my girlfriends needs is the right thing? I'm 25 and the thought i need medication for a healthy sex life is frankly killing whatever self confidence i have left but i am out of ideas and need help desperately.