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My e mail got cutoff. The worst part is that my fiancé and I were talking last night, and although he thinks she is nuts, he also thinks she has some valid points. Something about the postage machine, and then he keeps asking me are you sure you didn’t spend the card, fake the envelope etc..
Day 4 (yesterday) I was so sick of all the crap, and mental abuse, that when my son went to work I took the card, gave him the 100 bucks. Drove to the bridge over the water near my work, cathartically while bawling. Took the card and the gift card and hucked it into the river ….
Today is day 5, haven’t heard anything yet. My fiancé wants to keep the e mail going so she doesn’t think shes “ won”. I told him I simply cant take any more mental back and forth that no matter what we tell her… she is going to find a way to find something wrong with it. in her mind. I took the gift card, spent it, forged the card, somehow got a postal stamp from LA and that’s that…
On top of this all, I’m starting to contemplate what she said..have I changed? Is my fiancé too young for me? Am I a loser? Have I taken people for granted?
I’m cutting contact.. even if she apologizes at this point the damage is done.. one less plate at the wedding. Now, likely none of my family will be there. Mom is nuts, sister is nuts, dad has alzeimers..