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I get a strong sense that you need to trust your gut on this one. You describe a person who fits the profile of a potential sociopath. The example of catching him stealing and he could straight up lie- along with other examples you give.
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A sociopath is oh so charming for sure- that's how they catch people in their web.
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Thanks for being here to help! Im at a loss amd feeling extremely emotional.
He spent 13 years in prison for raping a 8 year old girl- that is very significant, difficult to be convicted for that unless there was evidence.
Someone like this starts to believe the lies they tell- they are so cut off emotionally
After he got convicted, he was givin an opportunity to only serve 6 year's in prison if he would just admit guilt but mever would. so he served 13 instead.
of course you are emotional, this is scary- your mother is in a relationship with him, and you have your family to consider
It can take a long time to see this, the clues of what is really going on, because he is so cunning and charming.
He never got paroled early becaise he wouldnt participate in the therapy. He was convictedof orally amd anally abusing this girl. Thats the only style of porn he watches. He refuses to engage Iin sexual activities with my mom. And she found out he responded to a man seeking man personal ad but refusing to admit it.
Your priority is to protect your children. You are afraid, trust your gut on this. There had to be evidence to convict him- this is adding up to something pretty significant- like you said you are putting the pieces together and it's frightening.
Is your mother aware of his conviction?
But he is so smart and so nice. No he isnt nice. He is cold. But charismatic at the same time. We no nothing of his childhood as he wont speak of it. he has no family to our knowledge.
A sociopathic pedophile- protect your children.
And yes she just found out. But he has a way of makimg her believe his lies.
Part of a pedophiles m.o. is to charm, and to groom others to pull them into their web
I would hope your mom will start opening her eyes- but she may be in pretty deep.
This is a mind trip being in a relationship with someone such as you describe.
How long has your mom been in a relationship with him?
I have a 5 year old daughter. Its scary. Thank you for your help. I hope my mother believes me. she knows something is wrong its just hard to accept people are capable of doing things like that. And for 2 years almost. Amd she has been making excuses the whole time.
I wish the best to you and your mom
you can offer info to your mom- stuff you find on line describing this personality
however, you mom will have to be in a place that she is willing and ready to take notice
I understand. Thank you again. I just wanted to make sure I wasnt overreacting. Im protective
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Protective is good- just continue to be observant and aware-
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