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Your urologist should have tested your testosterone level to see if that was the cause of your situation. He or she should have also prescribed Viagra, Cialis, or similar ED medication to help increase the blood flow to your penis. Low blood flow is often the reason for a week erection.
If you are taking an antidepressant (you never mentioned about other medications) then the result is often reduced libido or weak erection. The one antidepressant that does not cause these problems is bupropion (Wellbutrin).
If you have low testosterone level, then a booster shot of testosterone can be administered..
yes, he did do the testosterone test, but nothing really changed. and i tried the Cialis once not much result.
Then there may be an emotional reason for this.
The best person to see is a sex therapist, who is a licensed mental health therapist with additional training and national certification.
The best place to find a nationally certified therapist is AASECT. Here is there contact information. Click on your state on the map and a list will appear.
AASECT - Member Directory
do they do any test, or prescribe pills if needed
They give you a thorough assessment and then make recommendations as necessary. There are the foremost experts for this kind of problem.
Pills are not always the answer. You may have depression, which will lower your libido, and then you might want to take an antidepressant (bupropion/Wellbutrin only).
The medical establishment has already come up empty-handed using three different specialists.
This is your next move, and you should be able to get help. All they do is handle sexual problems with individuals or couples.
i don't see the map to click on
Let me check the site myself and see if it is operating normally. Give me a moment please.
You should go to this site:
A map of north America will appear and you can click on any state or Canadian province, or Mexico.
Or you can enter your state in the box.
Try it again. It works for me.
If you can't get it to work I will get the list for you.
new jersey, one more thing, i get erected when i get oral, but go soft putting on the condom.
Lots of men react this way to condoms because they greatly reduce sensitivity.
Where in Jersey?
which is near what larger town?
Or see if this link works for you?
is that problem i can't get erect even if she's naked unless she gives me oral. toms river
Here is one not too far. I will try to find another.
Give me a minute. It will not copy and paste.
90 West Main Street Freehold, NJ 07728
AASECT-certified: Sex Therapist, Supervisor of Sex Therapy
Areas of Specialization:
We work with all sexual dysfunctions and also specialize in work with the L/G/B/T, kink, and polyamory communities. There are two Certified Sex Therapists and five Sex Therapy Residents who work in the Freehold office
Day and Evening Hours Monday through Saturday
We use a bio/psycho/social approach which, in plain English, means we look at biological and medical, individual, couple, and social factors that may be contributing to your sexual problems, and address them all.
Let me find another.
Dianne Gwynne Berger PhD, CSE
I could not find another. Both of these therapists are highly educated (PhDs) and are licensed and nationally certified.
You should be able to get the help you need with either of these professionals.
thanks a lot for your help. i truly appreciate it
I wish you great success and because you are a healthy young man you will no doubt overcome this with treatment, as usually the case.
My prayers are with you for success.
Elliott, MAE, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC