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I can imagine how frustrating this situation must be for you. You are clearly having rather severe organizational and perceptual problems and they are affecting your life. I see from your previous questions to JA that you had developmental issues as a child. This confirmed my initial concern that facilities like Learning Rx would not be able to help with the difficulties you are experiencing.
And this is actually the key to my answer to you that you need to consider and think about. It is imperative to first rule out any neurological problems that might be causing the problems you are experiencing, especially with people talking to you directly. This is important to do before concluding that it is a cognitive or anxiety issue like ADHD or OCD and ADHD.
At the same time, though, as you are having the neurological assessments, you might consider a referral to a psychiatrist who is experienced in ADHD problems and also begin to work on diagnosing these symptoms from that end. If you live near a university that is large enough to have a university hospital, it would be worthwhile to discuss with your doctor a referral to the psychiatric practice associated with the hospital. The idea is that they would have a wide range of experience and expertise and someone there who is very experienced with adult ADHD.
The symptoms might also reflect an untreated anxiety disorder such as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Thus, an experienced psychiatrist would be very advantageous for you to work with.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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