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My girlfriend broke up with me last week. We have been together for 3 years and shes says she cant trust me any more because of something i did 8 months ago. Since then I have done everything in my power to change (and i have) and to sort out some issues. Last week when i was trying to get help for my ADHD and my doctor refused to help by prescribing medication she got frustrated and broke up with me through text. She after 3 days of texting then changed her mobile and blocked me on everything. She says its over and has given me no further explanation. I'm 24 shes 20. I have written her a letter and sent it to her. Should I go and wait for her to finish work? Do I have a chance of getting back with her? She seemed happy then just no so suddenly.
Kate she broke up with me after 8 months of taking me back and watching me change. She knows about the changes. I've started eating healthy and going to the gym. I've cut out all temptation on my social networks etc. and give her free access to all my accounts and my phones.
Last Thursday was a meeting with my doctor who refused to give medication, and she got frustrated at this and then said she could never trust me and didn't want to be looking over her shoulder all of her life and that we would never have a relationship again. She then cut off all contact after i messaged her a few times and got her provider to change her cell number.
Isn't this all so extreme or does she just need time?
She said she didn't mean to hurt me and that shed contact me when she was ready.
Or is it that shes so overwhelmed with emotion that she maybe has acted hastily? Or could there be something else she hasn't told me about?