Oh boy this is a very stressful situation my husband is dealing with. I will try to be short and to the point. He has two daughters, the oldest one is 25. She has always been difficult and defiant. Also very spoiled. The mom (his ex) is an alcoholic and spendthrift. My husband finally left after 19 years when the girls were in their mid teens. He wanted to get them away from her terrible influence including having underage drinking parties. The younger one finally grew up and is responsible now but the older one has never progressed. I've done a lot of reading on her type of behavior and she is a drama queen, manipulative,
needs constant attention and approval, chronic liar and blames her problems on everyone but herself. Her Mom is basically the same and they have an incredible entitlement complex. Mom and daughter live together,daughter has moved in and out of the house many times and Mom enables her because she can use her to get back at my husband, her ex. Both daughters worked in the family business but he finally had to fire this older daughter because she was unstable, hired bad people, hired her boyfriend who stole money from us, didn't do her duties and worked as little as possible This happened a year ago and she is determined to MAKE HIM PAY. Whenever she calls ,she wants something. She has repeatedly tried to convince him to rehire her and he has stood firm and said no. When she doesn't get her way, she has a "panic
attack" and goes nuts, screaming and shouting. To top it off, she did
get another job in the same field, but after working for them for six months was in a car accident (not her fault) but has been playing the victim ever since and insisting her back hurts and she can't work.
I strongly suspect that she abuses pain meds and /or alcohol and that her mom is also drinking . (She quit for a bit but I think is back on the sauce).
So my question is : what is your opinion of this series of events and behavior? Also she claims she went to a psychologist and that she was told she had PTSD from being fired and that she should not talk to her father. I find this absurb and don't believe a reputable
professional would say this. I believe she has twisted this to make her seem the innocent victim. Thank you for your time.