Ask a Psychiatrist and Get Answers to Mental Health Questions ASAP
OK, so I texted my friend. She replied and we chatted a bit via Text.She then called me the next day and said something like, I just wanted to make sure you were alive and then got off the phone quickly stating that she would call me back. This was on Thursday of last week.I'm very confused by this entire situation. This is the 2nd time she has called, I guess to just hear my voice or test me to see if I'll pick up the phone and then get off really quick without a conversation.Is she just testing to see if I'm still her friend?
I texted my friend last night and she seems really upbeat and happy.
I basically said what you told me, hey haven't heard from you in a week and just wanted to say hello and see how things are going, hope you're doing well.
She replied that she was doing great, looking at apartments for a move in August, she isn't drinking that much anymore (something she was talking about when we were still close friends and speaking every day. She wasn't an alcholic but a typical person in her 20's), she got her daughter signed up for mother's day out at this church two days each week and is planning on attending church there herself when she moves into an apartment (something that she was also talking about doing with me when we were still hanging out last month).
I told her that I missed hanging around her and talking to her like we were but that I'm really happy for her, asked her to keep in touch, and said that I thought that she really deserved all these great things that were happening to her (the new job she got recently, the fact that her desire for an apartment was finally happening, and the fact that she was following through with going to church. Basically that the great changes that we were recently talking about were happening). she texted me this morning and asked me out to lunch next weekend.I'm very confused. I'm very happy that she is doing well and that she asked me out to lunch but I really am shocked.
These are good signs right?