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Hello there how are you?
I am sorry about your ex making an appearence after 11 years
You have the right to be upset
You seam like a strong woman who has taken care of you daughter and yourself all those years
When he comes over to visit remember that you are strong
and you have survived worked and went to school without any help
He can never replace the 11 years that he lost out of your daughter's life
You were there for her and yourself
You will be able to work and earn money again
Call a friend tell her your feeling cry and scream before he visits
then take a deep breath and show him how strong you are
He will not be a hero in your daughter's eyes
he has no relationship with her.
It is hard to try so hard and work so hard and feel vonurable to life's trails
This is something you will overcome because you overcome his abandonmnet and you did it all on your own
you are strong even when life get hard
I am sure your daughter is proud of you
and you should feel proud of yourself
exes have a way of openning old insecurities but you are not the person he left
You will be able to handle this and show him you are a strong woman who deserves so much more
I am speaking from experience I was in your place about 10 years ago
It does get better.
I think you are very gracefull for letting him back into your children's life
IF I HAD A FRIEND BELIEVE ME I WOULDNT BE PAYING FOR THIS CRAP. U TOLD ME TO HAVE A GOOD CRY AND TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE!!
if i had a friend believe me i wouldnt be paying for this crap! you told me to have a good cry and talk to someone else!! i want my money back!! were done!!
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