At this point, since I have described that he will often do actions that *appear that he is trying to build trust, when behind my back he is practicing very little self control... If he wanted to build trust, what could be *done at this point. How would I know if he is just *acting again. Do you have suggestions of what he could do if he wants to build trust?
He doesn't want to lose our marriage. I'm the one who wants out, because I have seen his behavior patterns. I'm not sure if there is anything that he could do to build trust at this point. Suggestions on that? Would a "probationary" time frame be helpful?
Also, is there a cure for narcissm?
Hi, again. I will make this my last question.
He says that he stopped having contact with her, because she transfered to a different dept. Of course, being married to someone who lies, I don't really know.
He has told me he is sorry... but when I ask him for details, I catch him in more lies. He tells part-truths, but still tries to lie to me.
We don't have a lot of money. With a personality disorder, should we go to a Dr., a counselor, a therapist, or a psychologist or a psyciatrist? Should we have couples counseling or individual?
Thanks so much. Those are my last questions.