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I would like to help, in order to give you the best service, I would like to know more about the person who has rage
how is she related to you? When did the rage issues happen? When and with whom she has the rages?
Hello there and thanks for letting me know. Abandonment issues drive people's behavior, they make them difficult to get along with. Children with abandonment issues become borderline personality disordered adults. They want to get close to people but they push others away be being mean, cruel and nasty to others. It is almost like they want others to prove that they will love them and not abandone them no mother what they do. The often split families and see family members as either all good or all bad. They have intense and short lived relationship and they are always hurt but blaim others. Yes rage is secondary to fear that they will be abandoned. They are also abandoned because they push people away. I bet you love her but she is hard to handle. You are going well by having strong bounderies, another thing that helps is to now become emotionally attached to her critisism and emotional style. Stay cool and detach and not let her split the family. She may need to say you are the best or the worst sister. She experiences extream emotions try to stay nutral.
I bet it is taugh