I am abusive to my husband and self centered and jeolous of his sister going through breast cancer. I dont know how to fix it I am a LVN and have everything I could ask for. He works all day but doesn't understand me.I am not always abusive only sometimes when he threatens me that I will have to move out of our house. This is our house together, I will not move nor give up on my marriage I just need suggestions controlling my anger. He knows how to push all my buttons.
I would like to go, but I am pretty sure he will not go. We have been together for 5 years but he finally married me 4 months ago. I wanted it to be special but we did not have a wedding or reception, we just got married at the court house. He did not even tell anyone unless they asked. He says it's non of their business and that everyone knows I'm with you. We are conplete opposites, he is an extrovert and I am an intrprovert. He likes to be busy all the time and I do not. When we get into fights we are both stubborn neither will back down. So it turns violent the last two times. The first of the last two times he called his mother and she called the cops. Then this last time I called the cops. I feel no one should be in our business but he always likes to call both of our parents. Now I am 27 and he is 42 We are way to old to be doing this. We do not know how to forgive, forget, and move on.