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Dr. L, Psychologist
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I have been talking with this lady for over a year now. She

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I have been talking with this lady for over a year now. She is a professional person which works many hours per week. I have tried many times to date her, Although something always comes up and the date never happens. On the flip side we have had wonderful open conversations about sex. She always talk's about her trusting me and thanks me for the wonderful mental sex we have together and also says she would love to have f-my you know. How do I apprehend this. Is she just drunk calling me at night with her hidden desires. Or are we just afraid of commitment.

Dr. L :

Hello,

Dr. L :

I would like to help you with your question.

Dr. L :

I can understand why you would be questioning these conversations.

Dr. L :

I think this woman is being untruthful and using you.

Dr. L :

If she wanted to really meet you...she would.

Dr. L :

She may say she trusts you...but it does not sound like she is someone YOU should trust.

Dr. L :

If you have been talking for a year...certainly there would have been at least one time where you could have met.

Dr. L :

I am truly sorry. I encourage you to end this phone talk and find someone who wants to meet and date.

Customer:

Thank you so much.

Dr. L :

You are very welcome.

Dr. L :

I am sorry to be the bearer of this message. But...this woman does not appear to be genuine.

Dr. L :

Please let me know if there is anything more I can help you with this evening.

Dr. L :

Thank you.

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