I am planning to do modification for custody, refer to question I have asked in recent months. I wish to ask my psychologist to diagnose children's father for mental illness based on symptons that children's counselors have already written in their counselor notes and will testify prior in court: "Father doesn't set boundaries, he excessive corrects-tendency to fault finds-blames others, he admits he's perfect in timing "when he makes late arrangements for child go to ABT so ABT has to make alternate arrangements to compensate for him being late," he says "timing was perfect," doesn't intervene when kids have conflicts -so they have fights get bruised, he ignores kids , son expresses hostility-resentment excessive from norm at father, he ignores son viewing bloody very hostile violent internet cartoons, he and son laugh at violence and conflicts-father chuckles, father needs to learn to listen-validate-support children ( I think these show lack of empathy in father), father doesn't listen-he talks over son-and interrupts which counselor says "family habit talk over interrupt)-excessive correct, (does that mean excessive criticize?), pattern communication problems, daughter says she's walking on egg shells, counselors diagnos kids have depression-suicide ideation-parent relational problems-adjustment disorder w/ anxiety-difficulty concentration-insominia -stress...all of these problems caused by father says counselors, son says Father doesn't care about him-(lack empathy), son hits father in counseling-father gets angry shows fists but doesn't do anything or say a word-just ignores, Father calls Elizabeth (15 yrs. old lovely daughter ballet student) names "dellusional-tyrant-crazy-loosing touch with reality," daughter said he swung a pot at her head-she jumped out of way to not be hit, daughter says father is bully-mean. Finally, I would hope my lawyer would say "isn't it grandiose for the father to want custody when he causes all these problems with kids? Yes. I know grandiose is another sympton of major mental illness. He also skips "phone calling of kids to Mother-breach order, every month for 6 years-he has chronic excuses for forgetting-making mistakes to miss her calling times court ordered. What mental illness could you diagnos with the above symptons of father or could you say he has symptons of these mental illnesses? I believe he has 4 mental illnesses. But what do you think? The one big one mental illness would help if every psych. could diagnos it from the above lists?
Children's psychologists-counselors are doing family counseling with father-children. Could the man children's psychologist diagnos the Father based on the above symptons? Or would be best for my "adult family psychologist that helps me " to diagnos father? I am showing my psychologist the "children's counseling notes and encouraging her to call the children's psychologists to understand the Father's issues with children. I am asking my psychologist to "help me to help my kids with the Father's issues with kids." I plan to show her how I help the kids to improve mental health thru church ideas I know....build self-esteem-build positive relations with Father, focus on positive thought and intend to have my psych. help me think of more ways to help my children "recover from the Father's issues." She has agreed to help me with this project.
Which of our psychologists do you think could "best diagnos the Father in court?
My psychologist has PHD in family conflict and all the children's/father's issues....depression/suicide ideation/parent relational problems/stress....all the symtpons above are mentioned on her credentials. I don't know if the psych. of children have PHDs and I don't know if they'd be willing to diagnos the father-but they do write comments about him and they involve him in therapy with children. They seem to recommend to him how to act better towards children-at least our son. They do diagnos that he has parent issues they write in their counseling notes.
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