hi, im unsure how this works exactly. do i only get to ask one question? im feeling the need to see a psychologist but have never been before. would i be able to have a session with you?
that sounds great
ok, well i seem to have a resentment for my mother which sounds terrible. but when i was 11 i went through her relationship breakup and financial ruin and she had a nervous breakdown and i was made to "be the parent"at 12 years old taking care of bills etc and my younger brother. i moved out of home at 14 because of my angry stepfather and very unemotional man, (he was with my mother since i was born) but they are unhappy and have a very dysfunctional relationship and into my now husbands home with his parents. I never knew my real father as he went to jail before i was born, so it was nice to have some stability there. i tracked down my biological father at 21 and met him, only to have him never call or speak to me again. my mother is now not the person mentally that i remember as a child, is a hypochondriac medically and takes alot of depression/anxiety/blood pressure u name it drugs. i feel so emotionally lost without having a father to support me and my mother is just useless mentally. my husband is in the armed forces and i have 3 beautiful children but i am finding it so hard and feel so lost.
ok, abandonment ive never thought of it that way. i feel like the way ive tried to cope with this in my head is sending my crazy! is it possible to "overthink"too much? im sure u talk to alot of people and think oh just get on with it! do u really think its possible to resolve these issues to the point that i will be ok with how i feel because there is no fixing what i have lost. and is it possible that it can be affecting my relationship with my husband both emotionally and intimatley?
are you still there? im unable to find anytype of abandonment psychologists within 100kms of my area. so ill have to keep looking, do u have anything else to add from my last reply?
ok thankyou so much for your help, you have explained alot in such a short amount of time. i only wish i could have my sessions with you.
hopefully i can find the help that i need, thankyou again for your time