What you wrote pretty much is what I wrote him. I am in therapy and she suggested going together. I have been going 2.5 years. Is it reasonable to ask him to sit and listen to my outbursts when they happen? I find that I dont' want to hurt him, but at the same time I am disrespecting myself by not expressing sometimes. I try and filter and deal with lot myself.
As far as his behavior - I made it clear it's non negotiable that he go regardless if he thinks. He has wormed out and I served papers. I just get a little lost with if it's fair for me to ask him to listent to me. One more thing. I am afraid to go together because I am afraid I will jump across the room and strangle him if I see him trying to justify his behaviour. Do you think we can resolve if he just go seperately?
Thanks Kate. I am sure I will be back w/ more questions!