Thank you. He always tells me that he sold the other house for me and build me a new one. He always says he is not flirting he is just friendly.He tells me that I have low self esteem and I need help.He says he gave up all his friends for me. He tells me I never changed at all. Only him. I was married before for 13 years. I do admit of cheating on my husband and after that my husband did it to me and that was the end of it.My mistake was that I was open about everything and tod him what I did and that that was the wrong thing to do.So here and then he brings that up and says how bad I was and he never did that. He was never married and has no kids.Lots of partying and I als found in the beginning a lot of pics of poolpartys at his house and a lot of nacked girls in it. I guess my question is also does that make him a sexadict? Even if he doesn't cheat.
Do you think there is anything I can do to make him see what he does to me? He has friends were the woman actually don't care if there husbands go to strip clubs. They even go with them. I cant understand that. His biggest issue with me is that I don't trust him. How can I .This relationship makes me tiered and sick. I am scared to start all over again I am going to be 42 this month. Its hard.
Thank you so much! You are a big help and I will for sure contact you again.
It would be great to hear from you again! Just put "For Kate" in front of your new question so it is directed to me and I will answer as soon as possible. Take care.
My boyfriend wrote you yesterday and I am a little upset. His name is Terry and he wrote you half the story. I like to ad the rest. He numbered all the problems and I will tell you the rest to them.
1. The last time he went to watch a football game , he went to a place called "Third Base".Worse than Hooters.
2. Sorry,but he does look at all that.He does check out the 16 year old, through the blinds upstairs.I am not imagining that.
3.Spartacus,omg.Check it out.Very bad. Does he thin because he watches it in a different room its ok? No respect for me.
4.Yes, I do hate his twin brother.Terry left out why.I will tell you.He always tries to hook Terry up with other woman. In a co incident they ended up in Vegas at the same time.Tom found out and texted Terry a msg like," Hey terry,what r u doing tonight? I have a date I can bring you one too.".He also has a friend who shoots photos for magazines. Naked pics of girls,they r taken at his house. He likes to invide terry over for that.Terry doesn't go,as far as I know,but thinks there would be nothing wron with it.He isn't doing anything,just look.So no respect from tom.Yes I do not show him any respect.He doesn't deserve it. I do not try to control his family. His parents live 3 h away and every time he want to see them I go. No questions asked.His friends? Please. One of them is a cheater.His girlfriend doesn't know.He mide not do it anymore but I know he did.He makes me sick.She trusts him.And most of the others are single.
5.Yes, he gave me the passwords for everything but changed it when he seen I do check. So he gave them to me but I shouldn't use them? Confused! He got mad. Yes I did found things, like a Strip club.He said his customers wanted him to take them there. Maybe so,but it still hurts.Texting someone or texting a text back to a ex, like " Hi saexy momma" big difference. One night we had a fight. I left. In the morning I found a sex talk with one of his exes on facebook. Sick. He acted like a baby. He said ,well we broke up last night I didnt do anything wrong
6. Sorry, staying in contact with those ex girlfriends is a nono for me.Yes one was married when he fooled around with her.I also didn't make him sell the house.All I wanted was a new couch due to the picture I found of a women with her legs wide open with no panties on.Really?
7. All the counselor we seen told me to leave him.
For you to tell him that you think I am a Schizophrenic makes me sick. I am normal. I know I am .Now what do you have to say?
Does that mean I have to write all this again?