Hello, in October I met a gentlemen on a dating site. He seemed like a wonderful man and things moved quickly. Four weeks later he proposed and moved in. Shortly after moving in, the sex went from daily to non-existent and the affection stopped. He said after his last divorce he changed his last name. He is a union steward with an 8-5 job but will wake up at 2 in the morning and go to work for no reason. If I ask him to do something in my house, i.e. mow the lawn he wont, or caulk the sink he will do 1/4 of it. He claims I changed since I am not working due to a comp injury but since his affection stopped it really hurts. 3 days before christmas he decided to visit him mom driving from Sacramento to Texas knowing I have back problems and would say no. He knows the holidays are bad for me and my birthday and two days after Christmas. I feel I am being used. Any advice.