I met with the Professional HR Representative today that is assigned to our company through the payroll company. I am pleased to report that they have taken the threats seriously and have found cause for termination with regards XXXXX XXXXX unauthorized charges because building a case of insubordination will take too long to affectively protect me.
I am pleased that you agree that she is mentally ill. I read the classic signs of a manic bi-polar episode recently and she many of the language and characteristics. Gradiosity, spending sprees, I know from an earlier conversation that she has a gambling addiction, self righteousness, extreme antagonism with other employees as well as me personally. Extreme paranoia insisting that I am deliberately losing business to deny her a commission (which is minimal at best). Definately on the lines of how dare you try to stop me, you are nothing, I will destroy you.
I have her working from home for the next three days to give the HR Professionals the headstart they need to finalize her termination. She seems bent on destruction, including calling the IRS despite the fact that she has not filed her taxes for 8 years.
I am not anwering her calls and responding only in writing via email. And keeping it short at that.
I will absolutely move forward on the legal avenues to stop to her actions which included contacting my attorney on a construction claim i have against a client in order to convince her to drop me as a client. As well as attempt to obtain a restraining order, even though it may be tough to convince the police that "I will destroy you" is a threat to my safety, I do feel in jeopardy and they take workplace violence very seriously these days.
My husband says that she will spiral quickly at this point and will hopefully be baker acted by friends and family soon, because she cannot stop her rantings. Do you agree with me that i have no right to speak with them?
Should she somehow track me down and confront me in person, what soothing techniques do you suggest until I can get away?
Thank you for your understanding of how difficult this is for me.