I just feel that if i call 9-1-1 it will make it worse because she has threatened to abandon us and leave the house and if we do something like that she is likely to leave on her own and might attempt something against herself. Her anger has been like this for many years but it has gotten worse within the years. She has always yelled and said things that did not seem ok but now she is in depression, withdrawn from us, locks herself in her room all day, does not eat, and when we try to talk to her she yells and talks about death and suicide and that she doesn't want to see us anymore.
I see you listed 47 as your age is that correct? What is your mother's age?