We had a great relationship until his mother died he had a lot of problems with work and a family business that all happened after his mother died and wasn't around for me.We have plans for a house and marriage but these all had to be put on hold which wasn't easy for me but I have accepted this he says he loves me but just cant give me what I want. And that he could not take any arguments. He seemed to go into a dark place in November and December. He spoke me to on the phone on Wed and I asked him to call to me tonight and he said he will , a few weeks ago he would of said I do not think it is a good idea.
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well he did not show up on Friday or even text to advise he could not make it, so I think its time to cut my losses. He would of never done that before. On wed he wanted to know where I was moving to and there was no rush moving and he knows he is wrong not to reply to me and then does not show up on Friday . Makes no sense seems to want me around but not actually have to deal with the issue.
ah I don't think hanging in there will make any difference . If he cant deal with simply issues as collecting post and rent issues. He is paying a tv service for me and have asked him to change it to my details and he just says oh ok and still has not done it 2 months later. If I am suppose to be his ex girlfriend you don't pay these things :)
Would this sort of thing be normal behavior for people grieving or under pressure. Will reply to me some days and not other days ? And constantly saying he is sorry and wrong.