kate there are amily members who agree, but few. you are right it is shame that they feel. but he should be made to feel ashamed instead they use to try to shame me. That was when i was a child. now that I am older and stronger they simply say they were protecting my aunt. They say they want me at family functions but they have to forgive him. yes you guessed it I was broguht up in a so called christion home. I still believe in God, but I don't believe My family and church handled the issue in a Godly manner. My next question is, I want to go off on him in front of the family sometimes. cause a big disturbance. do I have the right to do that.
kate all i want is for them to validate my feelings and tell him he was wrong, stop making it seem as though because he so called asked God to forgive him he is a good person. And because I wont let it go Im the bad. that shouldnt be so hard to ask. thankyou so much for your help it helped a whole lot for right now.