Thank you....I have tried to let him know that I think it is important we not just brush things off when we have both calmed down but he doesn't like the uncomfortable conversation and so I let it go so that I don't bring about another fight. We don't fight often but this lack of communication is something that worries me long term...
I don't understand him when he gets like this....is like there are two of them...the every day loving caring husband and the angry one, very different and it makes me sad
not talking is a slippery slope downhill how do I make him understand how unhealthy and problematic it is for relationships when people don't talk specially when thing get tough?
Thanks again!!!! One more thing...I am angry that he thinks he can behave like this and then when he is ready to have things go back to normal he expects them to without any explanation...which can create resentment on my part...I see it like "he pulls this crap on me and I am just supposed to take it"
is this my ego talking/thinking? should I not take his behavior so personally? when things calm down is it ok to tell him (even if he doesnt respond) how I feel and ask him what I need from him to make future fights more productive or is that one sided? I am sure he has his own point of view about things and is probably wondering how come I am not approaching him?
Thanks! so for now it is just best to keep going how we are going with barely any interaction until we are at least back on speaking terms...right? Is there anything I should/could do to help the situation improve?