My wife thinks I'm having or have had an affair on her. She is on an uncontrollable search for the truth. She has phone records of mine, gps records of my phone, and has a circle of friends around her that she has created that gives her sympathy. When we first got together I had just got out of a terrible marriage. When we were together for a month or so I got a phone call from a family friend asking if I would help repair a lady's car. She went on to describe the woman to me. It was obvious she was trying to set up a date or something. My wife heard the voicemail that was left by the family friend. My wife has continually searched for stuff after that. She accuses me of sleeping with my childrens teachers, co-workers wives, women at my church, etc. She has spent money to try to get the so called "truth" and has people following me to spy on me. She has threatened over and over to post this information that she has on the internet especially if I mention divorce. It is emotional hell. She most recently accused me of molesting my stepdaughter and then later retracted that statement saying that she was only trying to figure out why I won't give her sex all the time. Opinions?