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I was in cognitive behavioral therapy with a pyschologist with a PhD for 3 years. I was released from his care about 2 months ago and have a follow up in a couple of weeks. Prior to my therapy I had severe anxiety with panic attacks, panic attacks were mostly at night I would jump up right out of my sleep with heart racing and sweating...very terrifying. Three years of therapy helped me tremendously. We focused in therapy on all aspects of my life included my family (siblings and mother) and work and found that most of my anxiety was due to these relationships. I am one of 6 children and the most responsible one and a good head on my shoulders so unfortunately my family always comes to me for everything they need help with including financial issues, venting, all kinds of problems and they expect me to fix it. Therapy helped me to balance things and not always say "yes" to everyone and everything and taught me to assess situations and not to be afraid to say "no". After I was released from therapy i as feeling great but I have found that since then I have become very "closed in" kind of avoiding family and work issues. I think i am doing it to protect myself by putting up walls. I don't like being this way, I am doing a total opposite of always saying "yes" to always saying "no". I am not socializing much and I am not happy about feeling this way. I don't think i am depressed I think I am just being proactive so that I dont' get back into high anxiety and panic attacks again. Is this a normal process and is it normal for me to be feeling this way? I am 42 and very happily married. My marriage is wonderful...its other relationships. Also I am taking no medication other than Xanax to help me sleep at night....
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