Thanks Bill. Your help has been great, we have agreed to meet once a week, and we also have agreed to spend time together talking when he collects and drops our little girl home.
We spend more time together on the weekend, it was nice, he was very down, hes feeling better today, he came with me to my anti natal check up yesterday, my nurse I go to knows us very well and said he looks like hes in hell. We are back at his psychiatrist tomorrow he said to me that if she cant help him he is going back to his own doctor. He was talking to me today, our little girls is sick so he is going to come over and spend time with us both, I said I would go out let them have time alone he said no we should spend time together, we would have been 10 years together this Sat, so we have agreed to do something on this day. He is still moving to this rented room in this house with stranger,s he is not looking forward to it, but says hes looking forward to the space, he said he hopes it will bring him back home.
I asked did he miss us, he said sometimes, on good days he does, like today, but sometimes he doesnt on his bad days.
Is there still hope here Bill in your opinion?
Everyone has told me not to give up on him, hes a good man Alex and me were his world anyone could see that, he will come back to his old self and we will work through this, I just dont know what to think.