The problem is I feel like I am being pushed away. Like no matter what I try to do I am not able to get back the friendship we had. We both go to work each day, and it is a strugle for me to do this with my injuries, but as soon as we get home it is as if I am being pushed away. We were great friends and really close now it is as if I have to plead with him to do anything.
I told him he owes me nothing but respect for the things I have done, I mean I have bought him a car, I help him with all things. But there is never a thank you. He says things like having emotions is wrong, that he can't care anymore. I try to get him to do anything outside of work with me and he will say he is tired or he is not wanting to do anything but he will right after that leave with other people to go do whatever. If I say anything I am wrong if I do not say anything I am mad.
If I ask him or his brother to clean up the house I am mad, wash the dishes they dirty I am mad. No matter what I am doing I am mad.
They invite their friends over and ignore me as if I do not exist, but then the next day get upset with me because I did not hang out? But yet I am wrong if I do. I am not wanting to lose this friendship. I am tryingn everything I can to find a middle ground. I just do not know what to do anymore. Can you help me find what is going on here?