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I believe that I can help.
You will never make any headway with this relationship unless you are a bit proactive. You have both talked the talk, but you haven't even gone on a date or kissed her.,
I know it has only been 8 weeks, but on the other hand, it has ALREADY been eight weeks and you are already agonizing about this, and holding back, rather than taking any action to further your relationship.
The best way for her to "undo" the relationship with this other guy is to get in there and take his place, inch by inch.
I have an interesting and helpful guidebook that may give you some incentive and tips on how to move forward with this budding romance which seems to hold such great promise.
Here is a link:
I believe that if you take those little steps every day, then you can win what seems to be the woman of your dreamns.
I shall keep you in my prayers.
Elliott, MAE, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC