No offense Ryan but when i signed on and asked the initial question I thought I was submitting it to (and paying) a different expert who was a certified marriage counselor? A woman with that certification and more was highlighted as being online?That said-- I appreciate your reply and agree with what you stated. I will add now in mid-summer when "I" was desperate for a job --I responded to a craigslist add that described my exact qualifications and what I was looking for "to the T"...I inquired and never heard back and the ad was deleted same day. Keep in mind, I had no idea my fiance was doing this to others on CL until his brother brought it up with him in a visit to our apartment last week. I have not confronted my fiance about my belief "now" that he was the one who set me up last summer. I am really wondering why someone who professes his love for me would act in such a mean, bullying way? I have caught him in lies and in strange behavior situations before but this is very hurtful. Please advise?
Ryan I trust your qualifications and appreciate your replies. I will happily pay you but have this additional reply.I get the insecurity issue but he has a solid teaching career, great paying job, is buying his own condo so it appears the only area he is insecure is with me in our relationship? I have caught him in some serious lies before but not sure he will ever see he needs to address his issues in counseling. Maybe marriage not the right call this coming Fall?