hello i am 21 and my boyfriend is 30 we have been dating for almost 3 years now. i started noticing that when we were having sex he wouldnt get hard. i didnt want to ask him anything about it so that he wouldnt feel bad. now about a month later i saw some pills in his car theyre call time+size+stamina. i had never seen those pills in my life. now i want to know what should i do. should i ask him about it or what?