Thx Kate. Think again we are on same wave lenght. Right now, son thinks support will come in us financing a business venture, which is a no-go from a financial/practical point of view. Son is keen us speaking to his psychologist, as he feels latter will support his points of view (tbc). I don't think our son feels responable for his actions at all. Rather, his views are that we made it happen. He is sorry though, which is typical reply to domestic violence. It's not the first time, regretfully. He hit his sister twice. She did not file a complaint, in France, because sometimes/often outcome is worse. Person is release and lies in wait to do more harm. Bascially son is lovely person, which grudges which have turned into obsessions. Feeling world owns him and parents particulalry. We are trying to set boundaries, with harmful results. It is hard. Will see whether we can meet wiht said psychiatrist. Thx again. t
You are very welcome. It sounds like you are doing very well with him. It can be more complicated than most people know when dealing with someone who you want to help but they can't see the harm they are doing to themselves or anyone else. But I think what you said makes lots of sense.
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