My ex wife are extremely frustrated with our daughter. She is 28 years - with a child (our granddaughter). She currently lives with her mother.
The problem is that our daughter is extremely messy, and nasty. She will not keep clean clothes for herself or my granddaughter. Her car is an absolute mess. My 3 year old granddaughter has to tell her grandmother which clothes are clean or dirty. She has no problem dressing our grandchild in wrinkled, dingy clothes. She once sent her to nursery school with one short anklet sock and a long sock because she couldn't find the matches. Typically, if one of us (my ex or me) don't give her a bath each day, she does not get one.
In the past four years she has lived with me, her brother and now, once again, with her mother. For 6 months she lived in her own apartment, but the lack of a job forced her to abandon the apartment.
Neither her mother nor I live like this. She was brought up in a clean home, always with clean, matching clothes. She was bathed and had her hair combed/brushed every single day.
Her mother and I are at our wits' end. To witness our granddaughter being treated this way ...in these living conditions..hurts terribly.
Something needs change my daughter's behavior. This is not fair to my granddaughter. The sad
part about this is that my granddaughter absolutely adores her mother.
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