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After 47 years I believe you know who you are and what you need in your life;.
What are you thinking about doing to move ahead with this as it seems that staying as David is not enough?
yes you are right i need to be me
Are you thinking about getting any hormones or doing any other procedures? I suggest one step at a time of course, to see how you like your new public persona.
Your doctor is well-intentioned but just does not understand.
yes i have been on hormones for 3 years
Are you out in public?
Are you acquiring an appropriate wardrobe?
Are you in a relationship?
yes i have everything bras wigs corsets dresses and yes she knows about me
She meaning your wife or significant other?
And how does she feel about this? How has it affected your relationship? It has been three years now?
Since the treatments started.
she sees me as her sister now as i do not have sex as i am impotent now
From the hormones.
Do you both want to stay in the relationship?
Are there children?
no to both?
What do you want to accomplish in 2013 toward remaking yourself?
find a good doctor and get on with life as davanna
Will you get full surgery?
if i can yes i would love to
What is your impediment?
me and my job
Tell me about the "me" part first.
Or were they meant to go together?
me as in finding to will to be who i should be davanna and finding someone who under stands me as me as i have stopped myself so many times from getting proper help
Are you in a support group of any kind?
i need to find one
AIS Support Group Australia - Australia based. Includes meeting, contact and legal information, a newsletter, and information on genetics, hormone therapy, fertility and presentation.
and a Christian support group as well
Did you really mean to rate me bad service for all of the information that I have given you? The last site I gave you was not for gay people but for all gender issues. I have worked for nearly an hour on my time and I believe that your rating was either accidental or very inappropriate for the value I have given youl
I will nevertheless keep you in my prayers and hope that you do well with your life.
You still have the option of giving me positive feedback.
Thank you so much.
Warm regards. I will leave the chat open. Elliott