Elliott, LPCC, NCC : Seeking expert counseling is a sign of strength. A personal relationship with a caring professional is proven clinically effective.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : Dear Craig,
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : I believe that I can help.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : I am sorry for the sad situation facing your family.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : Your sister has now made directed homicidal gestures, not mere verbal threats.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : Were she not psychotic, she would be arrested and put in jail awaiting trial.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : She is a threat to your father's life and must be put into an institution.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : This is a matter for the police and for social services.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : She cannot be stabilized with medications at home because she refuses to take them.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : You need to speak to your local and state police, to the department of social services, and to your county or district attorney.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : It is their duty to keep your sister from hurting either herself, or any others,including and especially for very vulnerable and aged parents.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : If you do not get satisfaction from the authorities (and you should because this is their legal obligation), then contact an attorney (not one connected to the legal system, if that is possible), and let him or her hold their feet to the fire until they take the action that is their duty.
Customer: I have my dad on the phone. The police were out last week and gave him a couple of phone numbers. I think one was suicide prevention. does that sound like someone to call? If she is put in a facility, is it permanent?
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : Suicide prevention is to talk someone out of killing themselves.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : If she is put in an institution they will hold her until they feel she is stabilized.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : If it is long-term, then they will decide.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : You father can also ask they she be arrested and removed from the house if his life is being threatened at knife-point.
Customer: She's been arrested several times and always released after 3 days. What I've found so far is that these type of people are just turned out and usually end up homeless. Are any of these people like my sister held? I don't mean to sound like I just want to get rid of her, but I can't take care of her and she needs to be institutionalized probably the rest of her life
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : It is not a matter of you WANTING to get rid of your sister. You MUST get her out of your family's way. You have to make a choice.
Customer: So there are some that cared for in a locked facilty?
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : You have to investigate what is available in your area.
Customer: I don't want to take up to much of your time so if I have other questions can I get in touch somehow or do I just come back to just answer?
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : I will help you anytime. Just ask for me by name.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : If I have helped please don't hesitate to give me a positive rating.
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : I wish you a very happy new year and hope that you can find a place that will take her. She is a poor, unfortunate victim of mental illness, but you must do what you can.
Customer: Thank you. I appreciate the help. Hope you have a happy new year also. Goodbye
Elliott, LPCC, NCC : God bless you and your family.