I understand what you saying. I do send message signals in the fear his going to break up with me becasue of the cat. I get annoyed sometimes when he is here. I am supper clean person and I get annoyed if he leaves crumbs on the counter, but at the same time it is ok for me to leave them on the counter. Correct me if I am wrong, but does this sound like "I hate you", but "Do not leave me". I want him here, but love when he is gone as well. Can you tell me when I should know when it is my disorder or I am being unreasonalbe.
How oftern of the time would you say getting along well is? How do you know in specific situations when a realionship is not healthy because of the disorder or becasue it is just me? I seem to not grasp what a healthy realationship is?