To me it is also tragic. We're I have to say a handsome couple for our age and who he chose isn't attractive at all. Kind of opn the chunky side .I've always made sure I stayed fit for my husband to keep this kind of thing from happening. A lot of good that did me.
Is there specific questions I could be asking him. LIke I said so much more is involved. Over the marriage span he would turn from me without reason and I would ask what's wrong and the answer was always the same, "I don't know." He pull away and then come back to me again like nothing was wrong. I gave up asking he wasn't talking.
He keeps telling me what a big mistake it 's and only me he loves. I was his first Love and we married 5 months later. I thought we were happy.
So please what can I ask him to tell me to help us through this?
He say he is sorry and want to be a better husband I've done a lot of online searching asking questions but wanted you imput of what to ask. I caught them emailing June 30 and he broke it off while I watched him type. But 6 days later she emails him again and want to be just friends so my dumb ass husband continued to email. He told her nothing sexual.. I caught them again and said what didn't you get about no contact with her.
He didn't keep his promise. Anyways I was hoping for a little more info that you provided I know what you said already by surfing. I was looking for a new angle. He said he doesn't want to lose me well, yeh, when you have a maid, nurse maid, cook etc who the heck would want that to disappear. Nothing more in the way of offering some questions for me to ask, Huh?
I want to thank you for your input. I also forgot to tell you I made him and he was willing to sign a Post Nuptial Agreement. I want to protect myself for the future.I just wished I knew how to get the visions of the sex mail out of my mind. Seeing him and her together.
when we first got back together in June it was hard to keep the picture out of my head what he wanted to do to her. I told him so then when I found out he didn't stop contact we've not been in bed since.
Thank you and Merry Christmas
I already told him the is the worst F$&*@# XXXXX and Christmas I have ever had.