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Your wife craves your affection and attention, with sweet caresses , gentle words, and kisses, large and small, depending on her mood and sexual arousal.
Stimulation of her nipples, particularly with you mouth and tongue, will heighten her level of arousal.
She would like to be kissed all over her body, and would like gentle stimulation of her vagina and clitoris with your finger and her tongue.
Inserting you finger inside of her until you find her most arousable area, the G-spot (let her guide you) will also continue to help her level of sexual stimulation rise.
Rubbing back and forth on her clitoris with your finger or tongue, or with a dildo if she do desires, can continue to arouse her until he reaches orgasm.
Continue to kiss her and hold her after she is done. You know that you care but she wants to feel it as well.
Make sure you use prooer lubricant so there is no friction to give her pain.
Is there any other way that I can assist you?
Your wife will appreciate your loving tenderness and you will make her feel happier and more satisfied.
You will become closer and feel more intimate throughout the week because of this.
You have pretty well described our life for the past few years and it does work to some extent. Guess I was looking for something a little different and even helpful to my own needs.