my 20 yr old son is not eating very well and has lost weight, he is working and has a girlfriend but his ex girl friend is still in contact with him through facebook. I am not sure whether he is playing games but the 2 girls know of each other and it causes issues.
Also he recently had his mobile phone and i pod stolen from some lawless so called friends who he met up with, they also slashed his car tyres and broke his windscreen. He did
not tell the police because he was scared of reprecussions.
He lashed out at me over the weekend (father), under the influence of alcohol and he seems to really dislike me for the break up of my marriage to his mother. But i have realised that yesterday and today he is getting angry very quickly.
I have spoken to his mum and she says he has done this at her house as well. She thinks he might need some counselling to un clutter something that is bugging him.
In summary i think it might be a mixture of the past, the lawless so called friends, not eating very well and girlfriends.
I have booked him into see the doctor of thursday for a health check because there could be reasons why he is not eating. He seems to survive on a coffee in the morning consisting of 5 spoons of coffee and 5 of sugar.
I am looking for some support and guidence