I'm happy to help you with this issue. I'm going to switch to the Q & A board so that I can send you a few questions.
yes he goes to therapy but only for his ADHD medicine, we seperated a few years back and went to therapy together and when we got back together we stopped going because everything was better but once my son came everything changed.
I inquired with the therapist about him being bipolar but they didnt agree with that.
What bothers me is that I know that my son is effected by this but is scared to say anything to me for fear that he will hurt my feelings. I constantly have a nervous feeling in my stomach that something will happen, especially when I am not home when my husband and son are home together. It is mentally affecting me now.
I know when I tell my husband that I want to start therapy again he will tell me just to leave him then. Also when we do fight he says that my son is going to cause us to break up, which is not the case but I cant get him to see that. I honestly think that he does not think that he is to blame. I am at the end of my rope!!!!
Things are just going downhill now. I spoke to him about going to marriage counseling but he wont go, he says he has no time. I am honestly starting to dread when he comes home after work. My doctor thinks that I should take medicine for depression and anxiety but why should I self medicate when it wont help anything. This morning we had another huge fight and i actually told him i am considering a divorce but he blames it on the kids which is not the case. He also told me that he will not have anything to do with my son anymore which upsets me. I do not want my son to think if we get divorced it is his fault at all.