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He may be a bit reticent but that doesn't mean he has thrown you away.
There may be other reasons as well.
Let this relationship unfold slowly, at its own pace.
He has awakened in a spiritual/emotional away and this has been a bit of a shock to his system. It is not what he wanted, but probably because he was frightened by previous experiences.
However,you can't un-ring the bell.
How do you feel about him?
he has told me about his exs cheating on him
and i like him alot
This is the beginning of something very good, it seems.
Remember the old song "You can't hurry love"
Accept his pace and don't question if. I thing this looks very positive.
yeah it just seemed as im starting to feel for him too but havent pushed for anything i lose communication part of me thinks its his phone but i cant be 100%
He may not even know why he is hesitant, and he may also have a technical phone issue.
Just accept him without question for now. He probably had enough questioning and difficulty in the past and you are a pleasant alternative.
yeah i kinda hope so this whole thing is kinda new i haven really dated before the last guy i was with ive been with since high school so starting a new relationship as an adult is sorta weird for me
so should i just give him time and hope he get back to talking to me bc ive just been sending one message a day just saying "hey" or "hows it going?" and i get nothing should i stop that to?
You will get used to it. He seems like a decent man, not pushy, and quite sincere.
No. In case that he has some technical difficulty he will see that you have not lost faith in him.
You have nothing to lose.
ok that makes since
If he is seeing the message he will come around if he is real.
ok that makes me feel better