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If one is the victim of a psychopath that makes for "terrible making" feelings.
Would you be willing to tell me a bit more about your experience?
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Ok basically I was trying to tell you the background but it is so long. I am well educated and intelligent but I fell hard for this attractive guy who is higly sexed but goes off afterwards and won't talk. This has been going on for 6 years and he has told me to find a good man as he has a men tal illness. Do psychos know they haveproblems
Well he is always talking about his problems but seems unable to explain them apart from he might have aspergers. He is unsympathetic and doesn't understand others view. He has been in prison for 5 years for the rape of his stepdaughter but has always says he is innocent
He always said he could not have a relationship with anyone and that we were special friends. I do not see him very often as he always makes excuses and I never know where he is, He says he doesn't have sex with anyone else bcause of his conviction and he is scared . He likes kinky sex he says and quite often wants me to wear stockings. I feel really stupid but he is in my head. Lat week I went to his house for a surprise and at first he was cross and then went really nice so I stayed over and the next morning he told me he had a ladyfriend for about 2 or 3 years and thy just talked for hours but he liked her and then he said he liked me and the sex. I don't know what is true but think he was trying to hurt me as he doesn't like not being in control and me going round, What do you think
Ok thanks but I am worried about myself as I feel very stressed and upset. I lent him some money for a car and he still owes me £1000. He has said that since last week he doesn't want much contact in the future but he will pay money back as and when but I think it will be a long time. He has said he is sorry and that it is all his fault. He said he just wanted no strings sex. I'm not sure he does have a lady friend or that he was just trying to hurt me for going round, What do you think? I am worried about the money as it is a link. I know I don't deserve this but think I am addicted to him. Can I get some sort of help do you think and do you think he will be back?
Thank you.I am very hurt. Could you just tell me if it is me or would he.. be like that with anyone. My self esteem has taken a massive knock. He has always said I am good and kind and has many times said he doesn't want sex with me cos it makes him feel bad And he has tried to end it and then comes back - I think when he wants sex. Do you think there is something wrong with me as normally I am a sane and strong person. I was vulnerable when I met having just gone thru a divorce. Do you think he is capable of a normal relationship with anyone?
Thank you for your help