ok I noticed his withdrawl then back out of it a yr ago. But really has been last month. I forgot to add he said "i feel dead inside" Today he said "I wish i were dead" I wish I had the courgae to end it all." Not sure he reassures me he will pop out of it and will not harm himself. He is actually thinking of moving to UK. I guess i am asking what should i do. I think he needs help. Is is a cry for help or is it a pitty party. He is ignorig me right now. In the last yr he has shut out a few relationships. Now ost his daughter instead of fighting for her. Is it poss he is depressed or just wants out of relationship as he or we hv done this so many times.