My fiance and met in 2004, dated for 6 years, broke up, got back together and got engaged in February of 2012. When he popped the question, I was completely caught off guard. I thought we were taking it slow (as we'd discussed) in getting back together. But I said yes anyway, because I love him and I want to be with him.
I knew that during our split, he saw other people, and one of those people he had a strong connection with. Nevertheless, he's denied being serious about her.
I have a terrible habit of snooping through his things. Its a self-destructive behavior that has hurt us both in the past, and recently, I did
it again. He left his email open and I looked. I found that he still continues correspondence with her, and met up with her one afternoon in April 2012. Only then did he tell her we were engaged.
We have been through so much. This level of dishonesty and abuse of trust (on both our parts) is something I have no idea how to cope with. I need just a little guidance here... I'm completely lost and terribly hurt.