I am ready to give up on my marriage but I wanted to speak to a counselor before I visit the lawyer again. We've been married 27 years. He has 2 adult offsprings that "look after their father" and Richard, my husband sides with them against me. They are well to do and successful in their professions.
Hello, I'd like to help you with your question.Can you tell me a bit more about your marriage and why you feel the divorce is needed? Thank you,Kate
Because he doesn't put us first. It's always whatever his kids from a previous marriage tell him to do... he does. His son who is 55 is getting remarried again in Hawaii. David and I do not get along well but we are courteous. I wrote him an apology letter once to clear things up whatever they were but that is not sufficient. So, he invited his father to go to hawaii paid and all. BUT Richard, my husband says I cannot go because we don't get along. Well then, I say he shouldn't go either. Because we are a team and he knows it hurts that David Excludes me. I am a teacher and leaving my job on 12-12 for 3 days I could but I am not invited. According to Richard, my husband his father. David is on his second marriage and he left his first wife for a distant cousin of his that he liked a lot. And lived with her for a while. But the girl he is marrying is not that one.
I have lost my respect for him when he hit me 3 years ago on the chest. Then he hit me again on my nose 2 years ago.
Thank you for the additional information. I will work on your answer now.
I've lost Respect for Richard my husband.... He is the one that hit me. Not David.