Hello- Thank you for asking the question. I have over 30 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families & am happy to reply.
I am sorry to hear about this situation.
First and foremost you are the adult and as and adult you have an obligation under the law ( in most states) to report children that are potentially in danger of abuse. This is one such case.
Anytime a Pedophile has access to children it is only a matter of time before there is going to be an abuse incident and it is your responsibility to act before this happens.
Also, most states prohibit pedophiles from having any contact with children.
Therefore, I would be he is in violation of a court order banning him from such contact as you describe.
So, what you need to do ( and you can do this anonymously)
is to relate what you have written here to the local Child Protective Services.
Even if he is not a registered pedophile- your concerns and his behavior warrant further investigation and I would not hesitate to report this. Remember- We as adults have responsibility to protect children.
If you need help identifying the CPS agency where you live- please let me know your Zip code and I will be happy to help in identification of the local agency to help you.
Kindest regards, Bill
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