"Kate" he will not go to therapy, at least i suggested the idea to him and he said he would not go. Seems like he does not believe in therapy. I went alone a few times. I tried to talk to him about the above issue but he apologises and then the same thing happens all over. I do not know what to do. Sometimes his behaviour is very juvenile too. e.g i asked him to drive slowly over the bumps in the road because i get very nauseous when he does not brake before stepping on the bump. So when we have an argument or misunderstanding, he will intentionally hit the bumps as if to make me nauseous. I just do not understand this kind of behaviour.